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'''Don't hesitate to say no to any of this!'''
'''Don't hesitate to say no to any of this!'''


Instead of saying how things went with my time, I'm wondering if you'd be willing to take turns '''benefiting from talking out loud while the other person remains silent'''.  For more information about this, see teddybeartalksupport.com
From Focusmate FAQ: If you'd like to talk to your partner more, you can suggest or offer it at the end of your session.
 
I'm wondering if you'd be willing to take turns '''benefiting from talking out loud while the other person remains silent'''.  A common term for doing this is Rubber Ducking.  For more information about this, see [https://teddybeartalksupport.com/ teddybeartalksupport.com]


Here's what it could look like:
Here's what it could look like:
*2 minutes - I talk about things like what I need to do next
 
I'll set the timers for us for
*2 minutes - I talk about things like what I need to do next, something I'm trying to figure out, etc.
 
*2 minutes - You talk about whatever you want
*2 minutes - You talk about whatever you want


Then, we either say goodbye, or, if you have time:
Then, we either say goodbye, or, if you have the time and interest:
 
OPTIONAL
*25 minutes - Work for another 25 minutes
*25 minutes - Work for another 25 minutes
*2 minutes - I talk  
*2 minutes - I talk  
*2 minutes - You talk
*2 minutes - You talk
'''Don't hesitate to say no to any of this!'''

Latest revision as of 08:58, 23 May 2022

Don't hesitate to say no to any of this!

From Focusmate FAQ: If you'd like to talk to your partner more, you can suggest or offer it at the end of your session.

I'm wondering if you'd be willing to take turns benefiting from talking out loud while the other person remains silent. A common term for doing this is Rubber Ducking. For more information about this, see teddybeartalksupport.com

Here's what it could look like:

I'll set the timers for us for

  • 2 minutes - I talk about things like what I need to do next, something I'm trying to figure out, etc.
  • 2 minutes - You talk about whatever you want

Then, we either say goodbye, or, if you have the time and interest:

OPTIONAL

  • 25 minutes - Work for another 25 minutes
  • 2 minutes - I talk
  • 2 minutes - You talk