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Lfu: /* Arriving at a better place */

2025-07-22T16:46:38Z

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	*The teddy bear's mere presence can serve as a touchstone to keep me operating in a particular mode.		*The teddy bear's mere presence can serve as a touchstone to keep me operating in a particular mode.
	*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.		*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.

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WikiSysop: /* Arriving at a better place */

2025-07-22T03:45:54Z

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	*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.		*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.

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WikiSysop: /* Arriving at a better place */

2025-07-22T03:44:58Z

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	*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.		*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.

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Lfu: /* Arriving at a better place */

2025-07-22T03:37:11Z

Arriving at a better place

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	*The teddy bear's mere presence can serve as a touchstone to keep me operating in a particular mode.		*The teddy bear's mere presence can serve as a touchstone to keep me operating in a particular mode.
	*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.		*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.

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Lfu at 21:33, 30 March 2022

2022-03-30T21:33:48Z

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	Grab a teddy bear in the spur of the moment		Grab a teddy bear in the spur of the moment
	*~~cuz~~ don't feel like it is getting the better of them		*because "don't feel like it" is getting the better of them
	*something comes up that needs fixing or musing about		*something comes up that needs fixing or musing about

	Digest ideas with a teddy bear		Digest ideas with a teddy bear
	*Learning by explaining and puzzling over out loud support - in the midst of reading or studying, grab a teddy bear and talk things over as if the teddy bear were a fellow learner or someone you could teach the material to. Let them be someone you can digest ideas with.		*Learning by explaining and puzzling over out loud support - in the midst of reading or studying, grab a teddy bear and talk things over as if the teddy bear were a fellow learner or someone you could teach the material to. Let them be someone you can digest ideas with.


	== Recruiting a teddy bear ==		== Recruiting a teddy bear ==

	You can point them to the [[Guide for teddy bears \|"Guide for teddy bears"]] for getting up to speed on being a teddy bear.		You can point them to the [[Guide for teddy bears \|"Guide for teddy bears"]] for getting up to speed on being a teddy bear.

	~~== Serving as a teddy bear ==~~

	~~MAYBE TALK ABOUT THE PULL OF THE HABITUAL AND THE NEED FOR RULES THAT ARE STRONG ENOUGH TO RESIST THE PULL WHEN YOU'RE IN THE TEDDY BEAR ROLE~~


	==Arriving at a better place==		==Arriving at a better place==

	~~THIS SECTION IS A LEFTOVER THAT I MIGHT NOT KEEP~~

	~~===General reasons===~~
	*Just for having spent the time at all. One way TBTS can be helpful is for getting you to spend time on things that you wouldn't otherwise spend time on without having a teddy bear on board with you.		*Just for having spent the time at all. One way TBTS can be helpful is for getting you to spend time on things that you wouldn't otherwise spend time on without having a teddy bear on board with you.
	*~~Variation and selection - pushes and pulls of various sorts~~		*Because it provides more pressure in some ways less pressure in others
			*Staying in the game because of the mere presence of the teddy bear - I might be able to stay more focused on what's important or what needs the most attention, or have better self talk, or think more big picture, etc.
	~~===Reasons that are~~ more ~~specific to Teddy Bear Talk Support===~~		*I'll know that the teddy bear won't let me get away with bad self talk, and that'll prevent me from talking that way about myself.
	*Imagining/simulating		*The teddy bear's mere presence can serve as a touchstone to keep me operating in a particular mode.
	*Totally committing		*Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.
	*More pressure in some ways less pressure in others
	*The ephemeral nature of talking
	*Staying in the game ~~- Mere~~ presence of teddy bear - I might be able to stay more focused on what's important or what needs the most attention, or have better self talk, or think more big picture, etc.
	I'll know that the teddy bear won't let me get away with bad self talk, and that'll prevent me from talking that way about myself.
	The teddy bear's mere presence can serve as a touchstone to keep me operating in a particular mode.
	Or, it could be that I know I won't always have a teddy bear with me, so wanting to take advantage of that can get me to prioritize.

Lfu: /* Recruiting a teddy bear */

2022-03-30T21:10:00Z

Recruiting a teddy bear

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	== Recruiting a teddy bear ==		== Recruiting a teddy bear ==

	You can point them to the [[Guide for teddy bears \|"Guide for teddy bears"]] ~~shortened version of the Main page~~ for getting up to speed on being a teddy bear.		You can point them to the [[Guide for teddy bears \|"Guide for teddy bears"]] for getting up to speed on being a teddy bear.

	== Serving as a teddy bear ==		== Serving as a teddy bear ==

Lfu at 19:08, 11 April 2021

2021-04-11T19:08:58Z

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	"Maybe I could/what if" topics are easy ones to try with a teddy bear		"Maybe I could/what if" topics are easy ones to try with a teddy bear

	Get Teddy Bear ~~Tech~~ Support sessions scheduled for		Get Teddy Bear Talk Support sessions scheduled for
	*getting self going		*getting self going
	*or checking in		*or checking in
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	*Variation and selection - pushes and pulls of various sorts		*Variation and selection - pushes and pulls of various sorts

	===Reasons that are more specific to Teddy Bear ~~Tech~~ Support===		===Reasons that are more specific to Teddy Bear Talk Support===
	*Imagining/simulating		*Imagining/simulating
	*Totally committing		*Totally committing

Lfu: /* General reasons */

2020-10-20T15:25:03Z

General reasons

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	===General reasons===		===General reasons===
	*Just for having spent the time at all. One way TBTS can be helpful is for getting you to spend time on things that you wouldn't otherwise spend time on without having a teddy bear on board with you.		*Just for having spent the time at all. One way TBTS can be helpful is for getting you to spend time on things that you wouldn't otherwise spend time on without having a teddy bear on board with you.
	*Variation and selection - ~~deltas~~ and ~~epsilons~~ of various sorts ~~vs those that are more specific to TBTS~~		*Variation and selection - pushes and pulls of various sorts

	===Reasons that are more specific to Teddy Bear Tech Support===		===Reasons that are more specific to Teddy Bear Tech Support===
	*Imagining/simulating		*Imagining/simulating

Lfu: /* Recruiting a teddy bear */

2020-10-20T15:24:21Z

Recruiting a teddy bear

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	== Recruiting a teddy bear ==		== Recruiting a teddy bear ==

	You can point them to the [[Guide for teddy bears \|"Guide for teddy bears"]] version of the Main page for getting up to speed on being a teddy bear.		You can point them to the [[Guide for teddy bears \|"Guide for teddy bears"]] shortened version of the Main page for getting up to speed on being a teddy bear.

	== Serving as a teddy bear ==		== Serving as a teddy bear ==

Lfu: /* Recruiting a teddy bear */

2020-10-20T15:24:02Z

Recruiting a teddy bear

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	== Recruiting a teddy bear ==		== Recruiting a teddy bear ==

	You can point them to the [[Guide for teddy bears \|"Guide for teddy bears" ~~version wikipage~~]] for getting up to speed on being a teddy bear.		You can point them to the [[Guide for teddy bears \|"Guide for teddy bears"]] version of the Main page for getting up to speed on being a teddy bear.

	== Serving as a teddy bear ==		== Serving as a teddy bear ==